There is no pain like that of losing a child. The staff of the Children’s Hospital at Providence offer our sincere condolences to you and your family. This poem from Dr. Ruth Hitchcock best expresses our feelings:

I can’t say anything that will make things better,
but I can be there with you and share your anger,
the pain, and the bewilderment.
Most of all, I can let you know that I care
and that I won’t abandon you.

Through the Bereavement Council at the Children’s Hospital at Providence, we are here to support you during this difficult time. The Bereavement Council is an integrated program made up of caregivers from a variety of disciplines. You can turn to us for resources that may help you and your family find peace as you grieve the loss of your precious child.

Please reach out to us at 907-212-334. We are always here to offer comfort and support.

The Bereavement Council can connect you to grief support groups in the Anchorage area and throughout Alaska. When you’re ready, and if you’re interested, we can help you find an appropriate support group near you.

A support group can give you comfort, as you connect with others who have also lost a child. When you meet others with a shared experience, you may find relief knowing that you’re not alone in your grief.

  • Anchorage
    Providence Hospice

    Providence Hospice offers a variety of grief support groups. Facilitated by grief counselors, each group maintains a safe and confidential atmosphere to promote peer support, learning about grief and sharing with others who have experienced a loss. Some groups have specific beginning and end dates. For more information: 907-212-4400.

    Hospice of Anchorage

    Hospice of Anchorage offers grief groups based on the book Bearing the Unbearable by Joan Cacciatore. Groups last eight weeks and are offered several times throughout the year. For more information: 907-561-5322 or Lillian@hospiceofanchorage.org

    Pregnancy, Infant and Child Loss Parent Support Group

    Pregnancy, Infant and Child Loss Parent Support Group is an open discussion group, sponsored by The TEARS Foundation and the Center for Child Loss. The group meets on the third Wednesday of each month, and any bereaved parent is welcome. For more information: www.thetearsfoundation.org or contact Kim Hatt at 907-529-4289.

    Anchored in Hope

    Anchored in Hope is a ministry of Anchorage Baptist Temple for women who have suffered the loss of a child during pregnancy or infancy. They meet weekly on Thursdays 7-9 p.m. Quarterly couples meet-ups provide opportunities for dads to connect. For more information: anchoredabt@gmail.com.

    Survivors of Suicide

    Survivors of Suicide groups, led by Alaska Police and Fire Chaplains’ Ministries, are designed to support the family and friends of those who have died by suicide, helping them to find relief and understanding, to integrate this loss into their life, and to move forward. First and third Tuesdays of each month, 7-9 p.m., call before first visit. For more information: www.alaskachaplain.org or 907-272-3100.

    Veterans’ Journey through Grief and Loss

    Veterans’ Journey through Grief and Loss is an ongoing open support group that meets on the fourth Tuesday of each month from 3:30-5:00 p.m. at the VA Behavioral Health building. Open to veterans and spouses. No referral is needed. For more information: 907-257-4854.

  • Mat-Su
    Love Surrounds

    Love Surrounds offers support for women and families who have experienced miscarriage or pregnancy loss. This includes a monthly in-person art journaling group, an online support group, and one-on-one peer support, which can be in person or virtual. For more information: www.lovesurrounds.org or 907-841-8327.

    Mat-Su Grief Support

    Mat-Su Grief Support is for anyone who is grieving the loss of a loved one. It is a place for listening and sharing coping strategies for working through grief. This free, confidential group meets every Thursday at 7 p.m. at Trinity Lutheran Church. For more information: matsugriefsupport.com or call Karl and Joyce at  907-373-0842.

    The TEARS Foundation and the Center for Child Loss

    The TEARS Foundation and the Center for Child Loss offer a support group for parents who have lost a child of any age. The group meets on the first Wednesday of each month, and any bereaved parent is welcome. For more information: contact Kim Hatt at 907-529-4289.

  • Fairbanks
    Fairbanks Memorial Hospital Hospice Services

    Fairbanks Memorial Hospital Hospice Services offers support groups for those grieving the death of a loved one, including groups specifically for men or for women, and groups utilizing the Grief Recovery Method. For more information, or to determine which group would be right for you, call 907-458-3095.

    The Compassionate Friends

    The Compassionate Friends provides personal comfort, hope, and support for families who have experienced the death of a child. For more information, call or text Stephanie Stowman at 907-687-2744.

  • Kenai Peninsula
    Peninsula Community Health Services

    Peninsula Community Health Services sponsors support groups in Soldotna using the Grief Recovery Method. For more information, call Gail Kennedy at 907-602-9944.

    Hospice of the Central Peninsula

    Hospice of the Central Peninsula offers grief support groups and bereavement services in Soldotna for community members in need of such support, including Camp Mend-A-Heart for children ages 6 to 16. For more information: www.hospiceofsoldotna.com or 907-262-0453.

    Hospice of Homer

    Hospice of Homer offers grief groups, which are open to anyone suffering loss and experiencing bereavement. For more information:  www.hospiceofhomer.org or 907-235-6899.

  • Southeast Alaska
    Bartlett Regional Hospital

    Bartlett Regional Hospital offers a Pregnancy and Infant Loss Support Group on the last Wednesday of each month. This is a safe space to share and listen, to connect and learn from one another. For more information: www.bartletthospital.org/calendar

    Hospice and Home Care of Juneau

    Hospice and Home Care of Juneau provides bereavement support to individuals, families, and communities, including one-on-one grief counseling and periodic support groups. Groups are open to anyone dealing with the loss of a loved one. For more information: www.ccsjuneau.org or 907-463-6110.

    Hospice of Haines

    Hospice of Haines offers a series of grief groups each fall, as well as monthly meetings throughout the year. They also provide one-on-one support and grief companions, including support for bereaved children and teens. For more information: www.hospiceofhaines.org or 907-766-3645.

    Ketchikan Volunteer Hospice

    Ketchikan Volunteer Hospice offers community bereavement services, including one-on-one peer support, as well as eight-week closed groups scheduled periodically each year. For more information, or to find out when the next group begins, call 907-228-7600.

  • Statewide
    GriefShare

    GriefShare groups meet weekly at Christian churches throughout Alaska. Locations include Anchorage, Eagle River, Fairbanks, Ketchikan, Palmer, Sleetmute, and Wasilla. GriefShare is a Christ-centered grief support ministry designed to facilitate connection, recovery, and rebuilding after loss. For more information: www.griefshare.org.

    Loved Ones Suicide Survivors (LOSS)

    Loved Ones Suicide Survivors (LOSS) is a peer led support group for those who have lost someone they love to suicide. The Alaska chapter meets virtually on the third Thursday of every month. For more information: survivorp2p.cpp@gmail.com

    * Note: Many groups are meeting virtually during the Covid-19 pandemic. Please contact your preferred group for current details.

The internet can also be a good place to seek solace when you’re grieving. We recommend the following online resources:

  • Pediatric resources

    Alive Alone, Inc.
    A nonprofit that is organized to benefit bereaved parents whose only child or all children are deceased by providing a self-help network and publications.

    Bereaved Families of Ontario
    A Canadian-based site, it provides support for people who have lost an immediate family member, including an infant. Monthly articles, newsletters and a resource guide are available.

    Bereaved Parents of the USA
    Bereaved Parents is a nationwide organization designed to aid and support bereaved parents and their families.

    Center for Loss in Multiple Birth (CLIMB), Inc.
    A newsletter, support and information for parents who have experienced the death of one or more of their multiple-birth children.

    Centering and Grief Digest Magazine
    A nonprofit organization providing supportive grief literature on all aspects of loss.

    GriefNet
    An online community designed for persons dealing with grief, death and major loss.

    KidsAid
    Part of GriefNet, a place for children to share their losses.

    Lamenting Sons: Fathers and Grief
    Although this site was created by a father whose son died by suicide, there is a lot of information for grieving fathers in general.

    The Compassionate Friends
    A national parent-to-parent support group. The mission of The Compassionate Friends is to assist families in the positive resolution of grief following the death of a child and to provide information to help others be supportive.

  • SIDS, Pregnancy and Perinatal Resources

    Babyloss
    A site providing information, support and forums for women and their partners who have experienced the loss of a baby.

    First Candle
    First Candle is a national nonprofit committed to the elimination of sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS), sudden unexpected infant death (SUID) and stillbirth through education, advocacy and research while providing compassionate support to bereaved families.

    HAND: Helping After Neonatal Death
    HAND is a nonprofit volunteer group founded in the early 1980s to provide support and information to bereaved parents, their families and friends following a miscarriage, stillbirth or newborn death.

    Hannah's Prayer Ministries
    Hannah's Prayer Ministries desires to provide Christian-based support and encouragement to couples around the world who are struggling with the pain of fertility challenges, including infertility, pregnancy loss and early infant death.

    Hygeia for Perinatal Loss
    Hygeia for Perinatal Loss is an online community where you can share your thoughts and connect with others who have also gone through a failed pregnancy or loss of a child.

    MISS Foundation
    The mission of the MISS Foundation is to allow a safe haven for parents to share their grief after the death of a child. The MISS Foundation provides support to parents enduring the tragedy of stillbirth, neonatal death and infant death from any cause, including SIDS, congenital anomalies or trisomy 13. Grief education for parents and professionals is the main focus.

    M.E.N.D.: Mommies Enduring Neonatal Death
    M.E.N.D. is a Christian nonprofit corporation with a purpose to reach out to those who have lost a child due to miscarriage, stillbirth or early infant death and offer a way to share experiences and information through meetings, a bi-monthly newsletter and a website. 

    SIDS Network
    This site has information, education and support tools regarding SIDS.

    SPALS: Subsequent Pregnancy After a Loss Support
    SPALS is a group of people who have experienced the loss of a child due to miscarriage, elective termination, stillbirth, neonatal death, sudden infant death or accidental death.

    SOFT: Support Organization for Trisomy 18, 13 and Related Disorders
    SOFT provides support to families with a child born with a trisomy chromosome disorder. This organization published a regular newsletter, provides information on the care their children may need and offers support when their child dies.